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Honor your past, even the regrets and mistakes. Wait. What?
As I was praying the other day, I saw these words: "Honor your past." Wait, what? It wasn't something I had ever thought about before. Usually, when I thought of the past, there was pain: regrets and mistakes that I wish I could go back and change. Back to the future. Remember that movie? How many times have I wished we could really do that? More times than I can count, I will tell you that much. If you are like me, you've gone over the past countless times, maybe

Deborah Ann Minke
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Rejection: The Almost Unbearable Pain
Self-doubt. We are ourselves and it isn’t enough. In fact, it is too much for some people. THEY decide that we are too much and it feels like rejection, leading to what? Self-doubt, questionning who we are and what we are doing .

Deborah Ann Minke
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I Won a Million Dollars! (Not Really, But Let’s Talk About Winning in Life)
I won a million dollars! Ok, ok, you are right, I didn’t win a million dollars, but how many times in our lives do we doubt winning other opportunities in our lives and limit ourselves?
I won’t get that job.
I am not smart enough.
I am not good at sports.
I am not pretty enough.
I am ugly.
I can’t do that.
I will never get married.
I will never have money.
Sound familiar? We all have limiting beliefs, and those beliefs stop us fr

Deborah Ann Minke
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Choices: Embracing the Light in Life's Journey
There will be days of disappointment. I can promise you that, unfortunately. It is part of life. We don’t always get what we want, as the song says. When we don’t, what happens? What do we do, then? Do we wallow in misery, or do we make the choice, to brush ourselves off, pick ourselves up and make the choice to be happy and grateful?

Deborah Ann Minke
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Why do our feelings change so much and what can we do about them? Your feelings DO NOT own you.
I think I love you. No, I don’t even like you. Wait...I think I hate you. Well, I loved you, yesterday. Now, I am not sure. Last week, I barely liked you. Tomorrow, who knows.
You get the idea. Do your feelings make you feel a little crazy, sometimes? Do your feelings make you question yourself, who you are and what you are doing? Haven’t we all? And we are not even talking about the object of your affection. That can happen over the outfit you are trying to decide

Deborah Ann Minke
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Your soul can transform your life, and so can asking for help.
We are a spark of the Divine and we forget that much of the time. We have the power and wisdom of the Divine and the Universe inside of us, if we seek it and believe it.

Deborah Ann Minke
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Does your child hate school? Yes, me too, and I am a teacher. What can you do about it?
I hated school. I would have rather been playing outside in the field that I was staring at that day. High school was even worse. Trigonometry? While I understand that math is important in this world, the two of us were never friends. Geometry at least I could relate to. By the way, forty years after graduating from high school, I find physics absolutely fascinating. Back then? I just wanted to hang out with my friends, and no math and I are still not friends.Â

Deborah Ann Minke
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The world can feel like it is spinning, and that we are out of control along with it. How to reduce overwhelm, panic and anxiety.
The chaos will subside. It always does. The negative feelings will change into positive ones. Your emotions will calm. You are powerful when you choose to be.

Deborah Ann Minke
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Are You Going to Let Your Obstacles Win? Persevering through the toughest obstacles.
You can overcome obstacles. Even with obstacles and challenges, you can persevere. I grew up on welfare and we did not have many books in our home. In my family, we were not read to by our parents, who may not have understood the importance of reading to children. Along with other factors, this may have led to me being behind in school and attending a special education class for speech assistance.

Deborah Ann Minke
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When our world crashes, and it will, what do we do?
When our world crashes.Fear. We have all experienced it, that feeling of pain and overwhelm when it feels like our world has come down around us.   I remember the feeling when I got a letter from the taxation center. I was in trouble for not reporting babysitting money. Babysitting money? We have to claim that? I was young. I had no idea. It was like a dark cloud fell down from the sky and engulfed me. You know the musical score in horror movies? That was playing in the

Deborah Ann Minke
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Dark and dangerous situations that I survived. What can keep our children safe.
Our young people are looking outside themselves for direction and validation, the last place they should be looking. They are dressing to fit in, doing the same things as the other kids, looking at their friends, classmates, celebrities, and social media influencers to find out who they are and who they think they want to be.

Deborah Ann Minke
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