Children/teenagers: Video by Deborah Ann Minke.  How to deal with bullies. Bullies are looking for a reaction.  Don't give it to them!  A way to deal with bullies that can stop them. Help for kids who are bullied. DISCAIMER:  Always tell an adult (parent/guardian, teacher, coach, supervisor or another adult) and seek help when being bullied.  This is just a suggestion that can help when an adult is not close by when being bullied.